30. The right question
plainly is, not whether a virgin every way disobedient is to be
compared to an obedient married woman, but a less obedient to a
more obedient: forasmuch as that also of marriage is chastity, and
therefore a good, but less than virginal. Therefore if the one, by
so much less in the good of obedience, as she is greater in the
good of chastity, be compared with the other, which of them is to
be preferred that person judges, who in the first place comparing
chastity itself and obedience, sees that obedience is in a certain
way the mother of all virtues. And therefore, for this reason,
there may be obedience without virginity, because virginity is of
counsel, not of precept. But I call that obedience, whereby
precepts are complied with. And, therefore, there may be obedience
to precepts without virginity, but not without chastity. For it
pertains unto chastity, not to commit fornication, not to commit
adultery, to be defiled by no unlawful intercourse: and whoso
observe not these, do contrary to the precepts of God, and on this
account are banished from the virtue of obedience. But there may be
virginity without obedience, on this account, because it is
possible for a woman, having received the counsel of virginity, and
having guarded virginity, to slight precepts: even as we have known
many sacred virgins, talkative, curious, drunken, litigious,
covetous, proud: all which are contrary to precepts, and slay one,
even as Eve herself, by the crime of disobedience. Wherefore not
only is the obedient to be preferred to the disobedient, but a more
obedient married woman to a less obedient virgin.