24. Marriage, I say, is a
good, and may be, by sound reason, defended against all calumnies.
But with the marriage of the holy fathers, I inquire not what
marriage, but what continence, is on a level: or rather not
marriage with marriage; for it is an equal gift in all cases given
to the mortal nature of men; but men who use marriage, forasmuch as
I find not, to compare with other men who used marriage in a far
other spirit, we must require what continent persons admit of being
compared with those married persons. Unless, haply, Abraham could
not contain from marriage, for the sake of the kingdom of heaven,
he who, for the sake of the kingdom of heaven, could fearless
sacrifice his only pledge of offspring, for whose sake marriage was
dear!